Tips To Know the Relationship is Serious
Friday October 31, 2008 at 03:26PM
Sometimes it is hard to determine if any relationship is serious. It is even more difficult online!
1. The relationship is serious if...
Both of you no longer communicate with other on/offline singles. The operative word is "both" of you no longer communicated with other singles.
The two of you are in constant communication with each other. You both look forward to "being" with each other any way you can.
2. The relationship is serious if...
Both singles have divulged all information about themselves and their lives. Nothing is being held back. There are no hidden secrets, and you are sure of it!
3. The relationship is serious if...
If there are "additional" children...you already know about it. If there is a DUI...it has been explained and dealt with. If there is a potential bankruptcy pending...it has been discussed.
4. The relationship is serious if...
Each of you is working to make yourself and your life better. Not only for yourself, but for each other.
You are both working on health issues, financial issues, living environment, etc.
Each of you are committed to giving 100% of yourselves to each other and the relationship.
5. The relationship is serious if...
You have both volunteered to remove the online dating site. Not coerced into it...but volunteered.
6. The relationship is serious if...
The infatuation period is over! The both of you have "settled down" into the relationship. You have had mutually disagreements that have been resolved through negotiations.
7. The relationship is serious if...
The Rose Colored Glasses have come off, and you still want to be in the relationship with each other.
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