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Online Dating...No Thanks!Wednesday February 04, 2009 at 12:03AMFriday night at Happy Feet dance studio start with a 1 hour lesson. Dancers rotate, so you get to meet plenty of people. A half hour into this lesson I get paired with a woman that screams with delight: “A man! You’re the first one I’ve had tonight!”. That very instant, online dating sites start to feel absurd, even quaint. I’ve met half a dozen women in 20 minutes, some of them cool, others flirtatious. 10 guys were missing to even out the gender balance. On dating sites, the balance is horrible, with guys competing for attention and women overwhelmed. Why are guys paying for dating sites, and not going to dance classes? Nadia, one of the instructors, encourages me to take both the swing and Lindy hop classes starting Monday because they are missing leads. I take a few minutes to go to the bank machine to get money for the classes. On my way back, I see 5 drunk chumps hollering at the sales guy in front of a nude dance bar on Pico Blvd. “What’s the cover?” He crosses the street to convince them, gets their attention. He’ll surely rope them in. They’ll exit more intoxicated, more frustrated, but having bonded. I walk another block, up 2 flights of stairs into a crowded room of dancers having fun. It’s a safe and fun place to meet people, like the social dances I remember going to in New York as a kid: all ages, everyone dancing with everyone. My parents met over tango and waltzes. Countless aunts and uncles did the same. Maybe rock and roll really did screw things up for everyone? The very geeky idea of creating an online profile keeps bubbling up. I know, it can be a real crap shoot. Unfortunately, I keep seeing better ways for people to meet than through computer-mediated communications.I don’t know, maybe its just me. Is it? |
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